Before this appointment, we already scheduled an appointment with an infertility specialist for me.

We went together to my husband's first urology appointment. Many articles and magazines stare at you to let you aware that you are experiencing infertility. We met a lovely doctor who kindly gave us a lot of positive feedback and information but does confirm that IVF is our only option. You quickly realize that this situation is real but the cloud has a silver lining. The doctor ordered another analysis and explained that the infertility specialist appointment was the next step.

We were both experiencing an overwhelming amount of different feelings. You want badly to get the ball rolling but you fear of the financial commitment and the possibility of the IVF not working. However, our need and want for children far exceeded the fears.

So we waited until our next appointment....